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Slut-shaming and Perez Hilton's Girly Demographic

Posted by claire light Posted on: 08/27/08

Slut-shaming and Perez Hilton's Girly Demographic

We knew celeb gossip queen Perez Hilton's readers were all female, right? Well, mostly female. The pink layout of his website would pretty much tell you that right away, even if his celebsession wouldn't.

But it's interesting to get a confirmation that team Perez knows its demographic. I just signed up for a username on his site and the sign up form is above. As you can see, the defaults are set at 23-year-old females, and the security question defaults to "favorite celebrity."

It's particularly interesting, then, that his ruling narrative revolves around original sin (i.e. fornication) and shaming primarily the celebrity women who engage in it (too much). Salon's Broadsheet picked up on his ongoing bashing of "Sluttyienna Miller" last week, and pointed to feminist blog Jezebel's column "Missdemeanors," that chronicles the misogynist things gossip columnists (especially Perez) say. 

Welcome back to Missdemeanors, in which we accuse gossip bloggers of Crimes Against Womanity. We do this because the gossip industry is sexist, and only getting worse. These people are paid to write "gossip" but, 99% of the time, the words they use to go with celebrity pictures denigrate, critique, belittle and objectify women.

Too true. So my question is: why are young women so addicted to these sites? I mean, isn't this supposed to be the inheritor generation, the one that inherits the benefits fought for by the first three waves of feminism? Why is this the generation that so gleefully flocks to misogynist fundamentalist churches, frequents slut-shaming gossip sites, and doesn't even know what "Ms." (the term, not the magazine) is?

Well, I pass on explaining the whole generation, but Perez I can take a whack at. The gossip queen himself has stated very articulately that gossip needs to be an ongoing narrative. The easiest and most basic narrative in our culture is the morality play. And we don't need Arthur Miller to tell us that people love to be part of an accusatory mob.

Plus, there's something about celebrities that brings out the worst in us. We identify with them and want to be them, but their bad behavior can also get glued to their success and looks (both of which are beyond us mortals) so that we don't feel so bad about not having the latter.

I'm wondering if girls who engage in this stuff do it without connecting Perez's outrageously misogynist treatment of women to the misogynist treatment that they themselves receive. For my part, I really enjoyed Perez's site for many months, but over time the toxic atmosphere poisoned my enjoyment. I couldn't stand the constant evaluation of women's looks. So I still pop my head in there when I need information--Perez is still the best source--but I don't have a feed anymore.

What do you think? Is it that girls are not noticing the sexist connection, or that they are taking out their frustration at the sexism they experience on other women?

Plus, read this new Wired profile of Perez.


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  • Interesting. I've been reading a couple of books about women and marketing (She Spot and The Myth of the Soccer Mom) and a common theme about younger demo women is that they don't feel they've been treated in a sexist manner by the media - they don't worry about Photoshopping and the like cos they don't feel they've ever been tricked by it. So, basically, they're taking it for granted already. As far as Perez's site goes - most women don't like crap marketed to them in pink. That alone is demeaning.
    By minutemaid on August 27, 2008 20:54

  • I couldn't agree more. I used to read The Superficial a lot until I became too disgusted by the fact that the author's main intent seemed to be: a. posting as many bikini pics of female celebs are he could so he could fantasize about boning them or b. posting unflattering pics of female celebs and then hypocritically raking them over the coals for being either too anorexic or too fat. And don't even get me started on the crotch shots! It's misogyny at it's worst. Just another symptom of how sexist and misogynist Hollywood is in general..look at how all our actresses are wasting away to nothing because they are pressured to do so.
    By heidi on August 27, 2008 20:57

  • And America Ferrera is considered fat! This is one thing the blogging world has made worse: before it was just implied in the media when someone was considered fat or old or ugly. Now there are millions of misogynist male bloggers who will say it aloud. minutemaid: i'm going to have to check out those books. the problem with not feeling as if you've been treated in a sexist manner is that it doesn't mean that you haven't. i remember at that age being proud of my feminist, take-no-shit self and how i never let anyone be sexist towards me. only years later did i realize that i allowed a friendly, sexist professor to put me off of pursuing a PhD in history by treating me like an idiot. this is what scares me about the enthusiastic participation in perezesque harrassment of physical role models.
    By claire light on August 27, 2008 23:41

  • Girls today need a Sassy-type magazine.
    By minutemaid on August 28, 2008 15:07

  • I find celeb gossip interesting, my blog would tell you that. Though I will say I have some issues with Gossip blogs as a whole. More and more I see that slamming the celeb is more important then saying what happened. Suddenly Jamie Lynn Spears going to Wal-mart for formula is plastered all over every site, and gasp she's not wearing makeup!! I look at gossip sites as a chance to laugh a little and step out of your own skin. I guess see how the other half lives, but I really don't care if Brit wore an ugly dress. But hey maybe that's just me!! As for the Perez machine, can't say I'm a fan. I have a contact in Hollywood who doesn't have many positive things to say about him on a function/personal level. I've browsed his site a couple times and honestly was impressed.
    By B The Gossip Girl on September 17, 2008 16:13

  • what's scary is us accepting perez' bad behavior and reading him anyway, which ... guilty!
    By claire light on September 18, 2008 21:21

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